Time flies... I'm back!!!

很开心可以回来这里写部落格啊!这都靠我的宝贝伊静的帮忙。几年没写，部落格停留，时间却还在走，宝贝女儿们和宝贝儿子都长大了!再过几年女儿们就可以读大学了哈哈，就可以驾车，也许会离开我身边了啊啊啊。

Happy 2016

Long Silence....i am back..

So happy this morning...realise that all the blog format changed and i can view my blog oredi.....

I miss my blog very much....

Grade 3 RAD exam

My 2 sweeties will be sitting for their RAD ballet exam today. After this exam they will be ahead to grade 4...time really flies, still remember their first day in ballet class with pink leotard. All the best ...my sweeties.jia you!
I am outside the exam hall now for Amanda and will post my Brenda photo later because her session at noon.

Ballet Class parents day..my heart broken day

Last week was my girls ballet parents day that the only day thru the year that as parent can see their kids dance. I have to brain wash my boy since morning that if he wanna see jie jie dance, he has to behave or else teacher will send him out. He promise me because he loves to see jie jie dance, every week when jie jie ballet class close ,he will  so sad and once the door open ..he will run as fast as he can to peek.

On that day, for the first 10 minutes..he really behave but after that he started move around...i did not blame him and let he move as well as not disturb other parents and ballerinas. Due to teacher 'high requirement' my 2 unluckily girls get scolded by teacher in a very teruk way .Really will demotivated the kids...errrr. As a mother, i really beh tahan oredi feel so sad when see their helpless faces and lots of parents around. Now i really understand why my girls keep telling me that they wanna go back to KL to continue their ballet lesson and even said wanna give up. I really don't know what to do...because whole KK only got one RAD ballet school. They both love ballet and been learning for 4years..just they wanna learn in a very happy way. My heart really broken n feel very pain on that moment and plus my boy keep cannot behave and some parents also not pity me and give some understanding...sad, helpless, plus stressful..i lost my EQ.i threw my boy out of the class n let him cry a while, feel sorry to do that but he really behave till the end of the class.

May be my artitle in the mess...because when i am writing the upset emotional still come back....i feel sooo sorry for my girls n of course my little boy. SORRY my 3 sweeties...mama don know what to do now?

The girl with white socks is my second sweeties, Amanda. Brenda is on the other side....no mood to capture more photos oredi.

Home schooling...Ryan

Believe or not ....till today i still cannot find 'suitable' kindy for my poor boy, even i plan only send him by age 4. I'm been looking around off and on now...

1) Kindy C - most local parents will send their kids to this kindy by age 5 and this kindy very big...design similar with primary school. They normally will send their kids to kindy  as early as 2 or 3 to types of kindy only have classes til age 4 then continue in Kindy C...Just image it just similar like kindy thirty years ago..using very traditional way like primary school. Parents here give grade A, just chat with one of the parent from west malaysia too said not satified.

2) Kindy Q - Which hv branches in West Malaysia but ....really still a gap. Going to view another branch..hopefully better .

3) Kindly J - not yet view but the only worry...no orientation, parents no allow to stay a minutes even first day.

So this fussy mummuy end up temporary home schooling lo....thank lots to Ms Gan my ex boss cum principal provide me with updated training materials and guide.

Cannot find good phonics, kiddo science, bla bla bla here...

Ryan 2 years old birthday

Back dated to Ryan 2 years old birthday......

Our 2013 Hong Kong Trip....

Finally i can post photo oredi....this will be back back dated post....on 3 Dec 2013. Some photos here..dadada

Balik Kampung...year 2014

Ya...we are counting down to balik kampung for Chinese New Year. Kids are sooo excited...Due to cut cost and wanna let kids experience train ride again n wanna to makan angin in KL. We going to fly to KL then take train from KL to Penang. MAS flight for us to n from KL -KK only RM1500 plus train fare ard Rm 1800 but Air Asia direct Kk to PG cost us Rm3800....why like that...we only back once a year..sob sob..

May be lots people will said ah ya..once a year , one thousand only ..for us can save ma save lo...balik kampung must rent car lagi...lotss of expenses.lo...we cannot eat kangkung everyday wo.

Anyway ...Gong Xi Fa Cai..to all of you.

Chilly weather ...sweet dream without air cond.

Due to the snow-cold wind from China-Russia.In Sabah due to continue raining cat n dog day n night....we can feel the chilly weather....ohhhh i love it other than the only problem our clothes need few days to dry indoor and smell not so nice compare under sun.

Yesterday...this is the first night that our whole family sleep sweet n sound without air -cond with blanket n my boy even with socks because he don like blanket.We all cover with thick blanket loh..Other than no electricity  in Sabah.(very common here..hihi)

How nice if everyday like tht ..i can fetch my girls and stay in without on air cond...save fuel. Save electricity for household like fan, air cond.  and even water heater we no need to shower so many times daily...no sweating at all.

Hope that this weather can continue during chinese new year......

Ah Kong.....miss u sooooo much.

My dearest ah kong came to my dream last nite....i dream that i went back to our old house at kg melayu flat and i forgot the keys suddenly i realise the door was open bit...when i push the door...ah kong is there with lotsss of stuffs he bought as usual...for us to makan. I in tear..i shouted ah kong, u are here n forgot key la..he just smile. Help me to check my bag. When i wake up  , i really in tears .i misss him  ....hope to see him in the dream again.

First ballet concert..

I only able to record the wonderful moments of my girls with words....their first ballet concert...they so excited even though very tired with lots of practise and rehersal. They just told me ...how nice if i can wear tutu too.....my heart was soooo hurt when they told me that some evil even tease them that their costume not elegant as the other team who wear tutu.sorry that i use the word evil..because the kid keep demotivate my poor girls. I really mad....when my girls achievement good in school ..she told my girl you are not good ...even personalise.....she said my girl are ugly,not fair...bla bla bla. 

Sweeties ....you are the most gorgeous tonite in the stage...and forever.Just ignore those people...they jeolous of your achievement .so sayang my samsung still cannot allow load photo in blog....wish my sweeties all the best.

academic achievement in 2013

Today will be last day of schoolin 2013....yipeeee

 My two sweeties achievement in academic in year 2013 for me are good ,very good oredi...with no tuition...but just started few months oredi..i help to polish their paper 2 .sob sob.
This year..even though out of the 5 times exam they are like share market chart....overall da da...

 Brenda ..14/295 in year 2013
Amanda ...2/316 in year 2013

 In year 2014 ii set few areas that hope that they can improve be more disipline..in few area to lighten my burden, less nagging.
1.bath n lunch without my nagging
 2.Complete homework on time without my monitor...so that i can rest more hihi
 3.able to take good care n cleaniness of own bedroom n study area 
4. Study smart...
 Amituofo

2013 exam over......

Finally 2013 exam over...means at least not only kids can relax but me and hubby too....no more rushing, no more worried homework,exam...bla bla bla.stop rushing twice a day with my baby to fetch my girls twice a day, stop or less nagging for homework.huhhhhhhh til next year...what a wonderful week for me....my girls started stick with ipad again....ohhh i start nagging to control them before they been addicted. After a rest ..i need to do some planning for kids just like a planner...housewife task also got KRA loh.

 I need to plan for:

1. My boy homeschooling sch. I bought training material but do it myself with the assist and advise for my ex principal..she is also my mentor.thanks Ms Gan. My boy will be 3 nextyear...i wanna him really enjoy , enjoy learn thru play so not sending him to school till...???? See how first.

 2. My girl holiday to be balance....so that they will not be ipad addict after theschool holiday...need to sit down with them to have a meeting and record down the agenda too...in order they agree with it.

 3. House cleaning..part by part.

 4.2014 balik kampung chinese new year arrangement...hubby help most of it.

 5.count down for disneyland trip.....most excited... So far this is what i need to settle first. Wish me luck

3 sweeties milestones.....

Still cannot load picture to my blog but this will not stop me from loading my sweeties milestone...19 mths old Ryan carrying most of the terrible two attitude,really test my patience. Latest weight 11.9kg..small size but cute. Able to talk well, we speak 95% english with him but surprisingly he can understd mandarin tht her 2 jie jie speak with us daily n he can understd some hokkien too tht i use to speak with hubby daily. Loves only gingerbread story as his bedtime story and yesterday nite he even canContinue some session of the story like....stop, stop...run, run, run as fast you can. When i say the cow ..he wil continue with moooo.so cute. Flash card did work..amituofo. He able to identify colours like blue,pink,red,green,black,brown,yellow....shapes he likes most heart shape,circle,triangle and square. Alphabet around 80% ..planning to start him with peter n jane books but still looking for preloved 1 to 4 series the rest i still have it. Can sing abcdef til g..only.haha. BArney i love you song become one of his favourite song...i change the baa baa black sheep version song to his name make him sooooo happy. My two girls are growing up fast on the way to young lady..weight Amanda 32kg n Brenda 30kg ...still need me remind on eat,bath, study....drink water,love polly pocket on a day. Even sometime 3 of them really drag me to crazy like man woman and sometime i really tired till walk like zombie...but i really love them mossssst.muak muak muak to my 3 sweeties. Thousand thanks to my hubby who work very,very hard for this family..because of him i able to stay with my 3 sweeties. NO DOUBT is a tiring job but i really don know how to destribe the feeling......16.8.2013. I always pray for health,patience and wisdom in order to take care of my 3 sweeties.

Parents Day..2013

Time really flies...this is third time for Amanda and fourth time for Brenda that i went to see their teacher in Sabah....opps i oredi in sabah abt 3 yrs ++ . Just for memory overall ok...form teacher told me Amanda bit playful n careless nowaday....but results good...she get placement 1/317 in std 3 for mid year exam and Brenda get 18/298. Amituofo... Today again their school third monthly exam....they need to sit for ard 5 to 6 times exam per year....stresssssssful I cannot load picture...it just stop there when loading but i can load to facebook. Helppppppp....

Multi tasker mum.....need vitamin B

WIth 2 kids 1 baby onhand....plus housework, cooking,cleaning, driver job fetching from school twice a day...1pm n 3pm,ballet class,marketing really make me TIRED. With no relatives or friends ...by hook or crook i have to everything by own. Sometime when bb fussy i will be more tired. I feel very guilty when my sweeties ask for bedtime story.....i really wish to but my body can't wake up. I REALLY SAD WHEN see MY SWEETIES FACE DISSAPOINTED n said "it's okmama,we know tht u are tired." I also make my blog time during breakfast n using my bb nap time to cook, teach my girls homework then i can't do housework ...like cleaning,ironing, fold clothes etc....pray for energy,patient, health. Sorry Brenda n Amanda.....mama will try to arrarrange equally my time. I really love 3 of them but more time hv to be given to bb Ryan.....how?????

First time colouring and writing contest in Sabah

Last month Brenda and Amanda joint a colouring and writing contest in Sabah for first time and so lucky for time they won ...Brenda get champion and Amanda get outstanding award for writing competition. Brenda joint colouring but did not get any prizes because other kids are really great. The most important they are soooo happy with the little trophy. They enjoy it...and told they whatever contest there will be win or loose , do not give yourself any preassure and enjoy the process. They will say..Yes, yr majesty...(too much cartoon movie )

13 mths old....Ryan

Our little Ryan are 13 months Very active and cute at this moment. He started understand lots of instrution. Love to play chasing with Amanda. Love hide and seek. His favourate food..banana and apple. When he banana ..he will point and say..nana, apple he will said ple ple. Can identified shape ...star and circle. He will dance when listen to music. He loves small animals and babies...he will ahhhhhh manja sound whenever he see small ans cute things. Always say 'Kai Kai' to his Papa that he wanna go shopping.Lotssss more he always brings happiness and laugh in the family. My two sweeties love their brother...they love kiss him, smell him that Amanda told me that Ryan always smell nice without perfume.hahaha

Kasih Sayang Resort in KK,Sabah

This is a back dated post too....we spend one night in Kasih Sayang Health n Spa Resort thinking to relax with the SPA but when we are there , the staff told us this service been stop long ago...Grrrrr. The view was excellence...from our room balcony we can see KK town day n night view..NICE!!!. In front of our room will be excellence Mount Kinabalu view. Cool weather during night time. Kids feel boring because no activities for them. Enjoy the expensive meals in the restoran but nice view.

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