Yesterday, I just have a chat with my kids drawing teacher about children, childhood. I told her lots of my childhood and she advise me to put it on blog as a sharing. Ya ! I am going to start with this wonderful lady in my life without her where am I ????? oppss my camera out of battery..post the photo later.
Just a warm up for my stories first.............
My parents divorsed when I am about 3 years old and my only sister about 5 years old.
................to be continue
This photo of my dearest 'po po'(grandmother) who take care of me since I am born. She passed away when I am 12 years old. She is mother of my father. Beside her is my dearest 'Ah Kong' (grandfather) who already 100 years old. Without them I would not feel there is love in this world. I miss you 'po po' and love you forever. I am now a mother of two wonderful angels.
The main purpose I wish to put up this stories was to tell all married couples , to be married couples and everybody....divorsed between two person will be as easy as sign a documents but the hurt by "distroy" the children only Home are forever and life. I go through that and it is painful, really pain.
When my grandmother passed away. I am totally lost....Daddy already had his own family with stepmother , step brother and sister. Mummy also had her own family and kid. They all are stranger for me. I only met daddy once a year during Chinese New Year and see Mummy twice in my past 12 years. Which relatives wish to take this 'burden'(me).....Oh ya actually my mum and dad do not love me since I am young because understand from other I am not lucky star who bring good luck for them. They believe the born of me cause their divorse.
I still remember once I went to mom and dad house to have few days stay before they divorse , I and my sister are watching TV and suddenly the TV face technical problem. My mother punish me to stand outside the house (flat) with the door close and not dinner for me. I do nothing. I have my dinner in my neighbour house that day. There is lady 'kesian' me. She know lots story about me.
Still lots but until here for today. I am tired...he he(need a nap)
Sad to hear from your childhood stories.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, I believe you've gone through the dilemma & has a loving family now ^_^
Forget about the past & don;t let them to haunt you ^_^
hello, we share the same thoughts over the last few days.. I too, put up a similar post on divorce since 2 of hb and mine friends have decided on a divorce.. The ones who always suffer are the kids.. :(
ReplyDeleteHope people who have decided on a divorce can work things out properly so that it reduces the impact on the little ones to the minimum!
Thanks Ladies...
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