THIEF Mother- Part 2

The next day teacher did ask the 'Thief' daughter did she taken my princess pencil and of course she did not bring it. Due to got witness 'THIEF' daughter use the pencil.She have to admit BUT U know what answer she given to teacher. Somebody drop the pencil on the floor and she just pick up and keep for herself. Teacher ask her to return on Friday and today she told teacher she will bring on Monday.

I told the teacher just closed the case in a nice way. The pencil also i will give to the kid. Deep in my heart I knew that the THIEF sure will not admit since the daughter who are only 7 years old able to lie APATAH LAGI The THIEF MOTHER.They all are PROFESSIONAL. I choose to FORGIVE and teach my daughter to do so. GOD Know.....

Because in another view, if teacher keep ask the THIEF she sure will find some way to protect herself that make me feel scare when I am thinking at home......

(1) She might blame back my daughter lie, because the 7 years old kids witness not valid ...blah blah blah

(2) She might .....

Oh ! I really cannot imagine this PROFESSIONAL what is inside their mind. Amituofo !

Amituofo again , the teacher give me a words that she knew that the THIEF daughter are lie from the body language and witnesses words. This is not first time the thief daughter create issue. I really worried because she might blame back my poor princess who are victim as a LIAR like her due they are PROFESSIONAL.

Mother Become 'THIEF'

This afternoon after school my princesses Brenda told a news that make me SHOCK in front of her classroom.

Brenda: Mama just now Ax Lxxx mother took my pencil from my pencil case during rest time and give it to her.

Mama: What? are you sure ? Do you witness it.Why you never stop her.

Brenda: She took it when she thought I am not around and one of my friend told me while I am standing outside the class. I witness it and she do it very fast.
I did ask it back from Ax Lxxx but she refuse and said it given by her mother.

I did confirm with Brenda again and check her pencil case really missing one because I did checked and sharpen her pencil last night. She told me that Ax Lxxx mother taken the shortest pencil and it is true. I did inform teacher this matter. My pencil quite special with Princess picture and make from recycle material so not easy to buy in Sabah.(so far i try to find but still....)This is not the problem of pencil but attitude of parents.

This parent i did witness she dig other students bag for exam paper to see their marks.

I think her daughter might want the pencil and her mother really TOO MUCH that open my daughter pencil case and take it and give it to her daughter. What kind of parent ?????

I will pass to teacher to investigate, in the other hand i have to ask my daughter be careful and will label and marks all her stationery.

Amanda- New Kindergarten in Sabah

(Everything in mini size-including the toilet bowl....so cute

(Playground area)

Cooridor in the waiting area)

(Waiting area (front door exit)- the parents car will drive in and the teacher will called the children name through microphone.)

(Amanda on the way home)

Open space outside Amanda class room)

(Amanda in the class room)
Amanda kindy just around 5 minutes drive from Brenda school so very convenient after drop Brenda then will be Amanda. Amanda kindergarten as big as a primary school which about 700 students. Nice environment with good facilities.Attached with some photos for sharing....

New Place, New Life, New school, New JOB....

About a month in this town. Finally almost all important and urgent things to be settle all settled and a news to share about me - I'm going back to work as kindy teacher on January 2010 in a new kindy. Princess Brenda going to Primary 1 and finally Princess Amanda also confirm a place in kindy (of course same kindy with me. They are so excited to back to school with their uniform, school bag, tumbler,shoes ready. Due to hubby unable to get either time off or leave for this new job so it is going to be a busy 2010 schooling life for me. My schedule :-

31/12/2009 - Orientation day for Princess Amanda. (I will be there as teacher cum parent)will bring Princess Brenda along too.

2/1/2010 - Orientation Day for Princess Brenda. I going to drive to that school first time in this new place with two kids.We have to reach the school before 7.30am. (a bit 'kang cheong'(panic))start worry ...it is going to traffic jam, where to find parking, try to memorise the road with my mind like GPS he he......

4/1/2010 - School first day. I plan to follow Princess Brenda to school for 2 days (I only manage to get 2 days leave) due to new environment for her and most important she got no friends there. She will be totally new there from "Kampung". I did told her my plan and told her Mama need to work on the third day and will fetch her daily after school. She such a good girl..just answer...: Don't worry Mama, I will be OK and repeat all my 'pesanan':-

Only Papa and Mama will come and fetch you. Do not follow anybody.

Stay inside the school while waiting for mama to fetch.

Do not believe anybody that tell you anything happen to Mama that unable to fetch you. Remember if mama cannot fetch you then Papa will be there.ok

Do not accept any food offer by anybody.

bla bla bla.........

Poor Princess Amanda will 'ponteng' school on first and second day to accompany me and Jie Jie.

My back to school present...from Han 'peh le'

kids busy with stock checking....

Bata B.first shoes and Stabilo Jumbo colour Pencils


Ah Han'peh le'(uncle in Hainanese- my cousin brother) came to our new house this afternoon. Bring the kids for makan and shopping. Their uncle bought some back to school items for them, including Brenda first primary shoes. Thanks 'Peh le' a muarrr(kiss) from Brenda and Amanda. See they are so excited with the present keep them busy for this afternoon..he he

Face Mask

My two little princess have to wear face mask in the school due A(H1N1). All teachers also compulsory to wear(including me..hi hi. Children face mask very difficult to get in the small town here so they have to wear adult face mask. Poor kids...keep complait that it is hot and i cannot breath. No choice darling is for your safety.

Primary School

My little Princess Rou is prepared for Std 1. Last week we went to the primary school for'pengesahan'. A little town here have not much choice. For the convenience I need to choose which school have morning session only so that I can have more quality time with the kids. This school is the nearest (abt 5min) drive from our house. I thinking to change or stay after lots of negative feedback from lots of parents with true story(the parents told personally)
* Understand from most parents Principal not around most of the time- attend 'kursus', most of the teachers act like they are Queen there. Assistant Principal 'ade macam tak de..same gang la. High students turn over but i can't get the figure.

This school LOVES to use fizikal punishment....examples

(1) not allow students to go to wash room.. every time go to wash room must kena one cane. End up
:- kids dare not drink water..(parents said their kids brings full bottle home)
:- One of the mother told me her kids get urine inffection due to 'tahan kencing'

(2) When class is noisy whole class will kena cane whether u are talking or not.

(3) Throw children book on the floor and ask them to pick up.

(4) Threaten a kids when they are talking will cut their lips with scissor and she really cut and injured the poor girl lips and told the parents she already said sorry and did it accidentally.

(5) Bit kids till got scar and minor bleeding.

(6) Twist children ears till minor bleeding due to the teacher finger nails.

(7) Cane if you put water bottle on the table (should be on the floor) for standard 1. I think the kids will really forbia.

Lotss more after survey

I just wondering any others parents with kids in Chinese Primary facing the same problems? or it is a practise nowaday? or have to close one eye because all the primary are the same ? I need feedback